Big Sur Elopement Guide (2025) | From A Local
For the past 15 years, I have been a Big Sur elopement and intimate wedding photographer, capturing love stories all along this stunning stretch of the California coast. How fast time flies!
With stunning cliffside views, Redwood forests, and beautiful beaches, it’s no wonder that Big Sur has become one of the top elopement locations in the world. With years of photography experience in Big Sur and local knowledge, I finally sat down to write a Big Sur elopement guide. The number one question I always receive starts with, ‘Where do I have an elopement ceremony?’ Depending on whether you envision your wedding day surrounded by Redwoods or overlooking the ocean, here are my recommendations.
Table of contents
- How to Elope in Big Sur
- Big Sur Elopement Permits (What You Actually Need to Know)
- Should I Elope at a Venue or a State Park in Big Sur?
- Best Redwood Locations for an Elopement Ceremony
- Best Ocean View Locations for an Elopement Ceremony
- When is the Best Time of Year to Elope in Big Sur?
- How Many Hours of Photography Coverage Do You Need?
- How Do I Find Local Vendors in Big Sur?
- My Top 5 Pointers For Planning the Best Big Sur Elopement
How to Elope in Big Sur
Planning an elopement in Big Sur is more about embracing the rhythm of the land than following rigid timelines. It’s where redwoods meet rugged coastlines, and the beauty lies in keeping things simple, intentional, and authentic to you.
Start by deciding how much structure you want. Do you picture just the two of you and an officiant, or are you inviting a few close people? Once you know the scale, you can narrow down location options and figure out logistics like accessibility and timing.
Hiring an experienced elopement photographer early in the process can make a huge difference—they’ll often double as your guide, sounding board, and occasional therapist (not officially, but it happens). Many will help you scout locations, build a timeline around lighting, and point you toward vendors who know Big Sur, because cell service is spotty out here, and things don’t always go to plan.
You’ll want to book any travel and lodging early. Big Sur is remote and fills up fast, especially during spring and fall. Consider cozy and peaceful places, like a tucked-away cabin in the redwoods or a cliffside Airbnb with an ocean view. It’s worth splurging a little to stay somewhere that adds to the experience. Once the big pieces are in place—location, photographer, lodging—you can layer in the rest: flowers, food, maybe a picnic setup, or a private chef. The best elopements aren’t rushed or over-planned. They leave space for spontaneity, stillness, and meaningful connection.
Big Sur Elopement Permits (What You Actually Need to Know)
Big Sur’s natural beauty is protected, meaning certain spots require permits to hold ceremonies or even take photos. This is not the fun part, but it is essential to keep things smooth and respectful.
If you’re eloping in a state park—like Garrapata, Pfeiffer Big Sur, or Andrew Molera—you’ll need a special event permit. These usually take a few weeks to process and may have guest count or setup restrictions (no arches, chairs, amplified music, etc.). Each park has its own rules, so it’s smart to check directly or have your photographer help navigate that.
Permits aren’t always needed for private venues or Airbnb rentals, but you should confirm what the property allows. Some Airbnbs are open to events, but others strictly forbid them, even a small elopement with a photographer. Always ask.
If you’re going entirely off-grid (using unmarked turnouts or lesser-known trails), technically, it’s not always allowed—and while people do it, they risk being asked to leave or facing a fine. That’s why it helps to have someone on your team who’s local or familiar with the area and can suggest low-key, legal alternatives that still feel wild and secluded. Don’t skip the permit. It’s part of leaving no trace and respecting a place that gives so much.
Should I Elope at a Venue or a State Park in Big Sur?
Some of the Big Sur elopement Redwood venues, including Glen Oaks, Post Ranch, Wind and Sea, and Ventana, offer the option to walk directly from your cliffside balcony or cabin in the forest to your ceremony location. These venues often cause the least stress on your wedding day. Knowing your ceremony location is within walking distance is always a bonus. Another aspect to consider is that venues can generally accommodate larger parties, if you do want to bring guests. However, venues can lock you into a higher price, so eloping at the state park can be a more affordable option. State parks can provide an adventurous thrill, with hiking trails that lead to the perfect, off-the-beaten-path ceremony site, which is exactly what some couples envision.
Best Redwood Locations for an Elopement Ceremony
Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park
Best Ocean View Locations for an Elopement Ceremony
A Private Ranch Venue— More information is available upon request.
Below you will find photos and insight into the venues I have mentioned.
Post Ranch Inn
Post Ranch Inn is the perfect venue for a Big Sur elopement with stunning views in all directions and an intimate feel. Their elopement package fee includes two people, you and your fiancé. They offer five ceremony locations, an officiant, your choice of wedding flowers, a marriage License, and a bottle of Champagne with a pair of customized flutes. There are many reasons to consider Post Ranch Inn, and there are options for guests.
Glen Oaks
Glen Oaks stands out for its serene setting in the Redwoods, with the Big Sur River running along the property’s edge. The riverside cabins are fully renovated, modern, and beautifully decorated. Towering Redwood trees, a restaurant for breakfast and lunch on site, outdoor bath tubs at some of the cabins, and the river, definitely an idyllic Big Sur elopement location. Their website has a contact form where you can request more information about pricing, the number of guests, and other services.
Ventana Inn
Ventana Inn offers two ceremony locations, which are available only on Mondays through Thursdays for elopements. Generally, Ventana Inn’s fees are higher than those of other venues, but they also add on fees for additional services on your elopement day. This venue is the epitome of luxury! It’s stunning, and it has a lot to offer. The access to meadows, hiking trails, and pools, the restaurant, and spa set it apart from other venues. It is also an all-inclusive resort.
Wind and Sea
Wind and Sea has a flat fee to host events on their property, which includes the rehearsal dinner, elopement ceremony, the dinner reception, and a cocktail party, which can include the house to stay at. It can accommodate six people for a minimum of two nights. Twelves guests can stay for an extra fee. Elopements at Wind and Sea are always a dream.
Garrapata State Park
Garrapata State Park elopements are another fave, for the rugged open landscape feel. It’s one of the best locations on Highway One, and the scenery and colors change with the seasons. It’s important to have a local photographer with you to navigate the trails to your ceremony location, since there are plenty of hidden locations here that are easily missed. The most important thing to keep in mind when planning a Big Sur elopement in Garrapata State Park is that a rush fee applies for permits requested within 60 days of the elopement. The permit costs $400 for groups of 25 people or fewer and $550 for groups of up to 50 people.
Pfeiffer State Park
Pfeiffer State Park is mostly known for its campsites along the river and under the Redwoods, as well as the diverse range of hiking trails. This location would be best for the couple looking for an adventure elopement, who might also want to camp. It does require more planning because each permit is for a very specific location. A local photographer can help navigate trails to your location. It can also be helpful to explore the area on your own beforehand. The elopement permit costs $425 for groups of up to ten people. Permits must be requested 45 days in advance, or there will be a $75 rush fee. With all of this information in mind, planning for this location is key.
Julia Pfeiffer Burns
Julia Pfeiffer Burns has the same guidelines for getting a permit for a specific location as Pfeiffer State Park. If you’re hoping to plan a Redwood elopement, this is a wonderful option. Again, working with local vendors will make your day run more smoothly at this location. A beautiful park, with towering trees, and a creek that flows through it, as well as the famous lookout with the waterfall (I would avoid the waterfall looks for ceremonies, due to the crowds).
Pfeiffer Beach
Pfeiffer Beach is not located within a state park. It’s on federal land, so you will only have to pay the $12 entrance fee. A permit is not required. Pfeiffer Beach has always been one of my favorite beaches in California; its claim to fame is the keyhole rock formations. It’s an ideal setting if you want to avoid permits; however, in the summer months, this beach can be jam-packed, and they will close the entrance. So weekdays are definitely best, and off-season months.
When is the Best Time of Year to Elope in Big Sur?
This question comes with its challenges because the answer changes year to year based on the type of weather we are having. I have photographed rainy Big Sur elopements in September and hot, sunny weddings in January. To say the least, the weather in Big Sur can be unpredictable. There are microclimates along the coastline, so weather can change drastically within a few miles. Having a local photographer who understands the climate can be huge on your wedding day, especially if you need to adjust locations based on the weather.
Fall & Winter
Winter in Big Sur is often my favorite, as the off-season presents a quiet, slower pace in the town. Puffier clouds start to form this time of year, and there are more dramatic weather shifts, which can create the most romantic images. However, it’s a riskier season due to the rain. Fall is a gorgeous time, and it tends to be the best weather all year. I always love it when the foliage begins to change color. Every month in Big Sur has its benefits, and you can’t go wrong with your choice. Just keep in mind that summer can be the most crowded, so book in advance.
Spring & Summer
Spring is beautiful with the greenery and flowers, and if rain is present, I always feel like it adds a dynamic element to the images. Something to keep in mind is that Spring is the windiest season. Summer is a very busy time in Big Sur, so prices for elopements will most likely be higher this time of year. Restaurants will be bustling with tourists, and crowds will form to view the iconic locations along the coast.
How Many Hours of Photography Coverage Do You Need?
Your elopement day timeline should feel relaxed. I am sure part of your decision to elope is to avoid the stress of a hectic wedding day. I always advise working backward from sunset so your elopement will end as the sun goes down. This way, you will have photos captured at golden hour. This is the best light of the day. Elopement photographers can tag along for as many hours as you have envisioned. Some couples desire a photographer for just a few hours or to capture the entire day. Either way, the day is about just the two of you, and it should be tailored to your ideal vision.
A three to four-hour elopement timeline might look something like this:
4:00-5:00 pm Getting ready, details, and a first look, if that is desired, before the ceremony.
5:00-6:00 pm: Ceremony photos and on-location photos, wherever the ceremony took place.
6:00-8:00 pm Driving to locations, Redwoods, Cliffs, or the beach. This timeframe will capture golden hour of sunset.
How Do I Find Local Vendors in Big Sur?
I always recommend hiring local vendors. Big Sur, as I mentioned earlier, is unpredictable in many ways. Having a local who can guide you, keep you feeling at ease, and support you if any challenges arise is critical to the success of your wedding day. I can’t tell you how many times I have had to try and help couples who hired a photographer or vendor that canceled on them due to fear of the highway if it’s raining. Some non-local photographers and vendors may struggle to find the venue if they are unfamiliar with Big Sur. Since cell service is extremely limited in Big Sur, having vendors who know the town well is key to having a seamless, relaxed wedding day. It’s also beneficial to hire locals who are connected to the community and are able to cover all bases with their local knowledge and connections.
Whether you hire me or someone else, I strongly recommend keeping your vendors as local to the area as possible. I provide all of my couples with a local vendor guide.
My Top 5 Pointers For Planning the Best Big Sur Elopement
What to Wear for Your Elopement
Big Sur is a rugged coastline! The most stunning locations will require you to wear shoes that you can easily walk or hike in. Prepare yourself for the grand adventure that Big Sur offers. To me, this is the draw and beauty of Big Sur. The hikes and paths can lead you to the most serene creeks and cliffside views, which make for mesmerizing photos.
The most important thing is to come equipped for the adventure. With that being said, if you want adventurous images, come wearing a dress that you can walk or hike in. A large, puffy dress will get caught on twigs and sticks, making it hard to maneuver, so keep that in mind. Of course, if you aren’t the adventurous type, you can still get phenomenal photos. Be sure to discuss your expectations and the amount of adventure you prefer with your photographer beforehand. A venue will often be a better option for someone who doesn’t want to tackle the trails, beaches, and cliffs.
Where to Eat in Big Sur
My top choice for your elopement dinner is Deetjens for the romantic, rustic ambiance. However, breakfast here is also a favorite!
Here is a more extensive list of Big Sur restaurants:
Post Ranch Inn – the most luxurious
Ventana Inn -love lunch here, as well as their bar
Nepenthe– the most iconic restaurant, great for views
Treebones— on the south coast of Big Sur, currently blocked on the north side due to a road closure.
Solstice – Opening Fall/Winter 2023
Where to Stay in Big Sur
Deciding where to stay in Big Sur is a tough decision, even with few options. I love Deetjen’s, so it’s always my top choice. The rustic rooms with the fireplaces are my favorite. The cabins at Glen Oaks, with the river running by, are such a treat, so this is a great option too. If I were going to splurge, then I would say Post Ranch Inn.
Here is a list of hotels for more options:
Treebones– on the south coast of Big Sur.
Best Activities to Do While in Big Sur
1. Enjoy pastries and coffee from The Village, Big Sur.
2. Take a drive to Pfeiffer Beach.
3. Stop for lunch at Nepenthe or Ventana for a meal with a view. Nepenthe is a must at some point in your itinerary for its ambiance and architecture, and it offers the best views.
4. A quick pit stop at Coast Gallery for snacks or coffee.
5. Have a drink, read a book, and sit in a chair in the middle of the river at Big Sur River Inn.
6. Go on a hike. Given that Big Sur is renowned for its hiking trails, I highly recommend planning several hikes. Molera State Park offers a plethora of hikes, and Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park is well-known for its redwoods and McWay Falls. The Soberanes trailhead in Garrapata State Park is a good option if you want a good glute burn with jaw-dropping views. Pfeiffer State Park for walking or hiking under the Redwoods. You can reach out to me directly, and I’d be happy to share more insight.
7. Get a massage. Treat yourself to a massage at Esalen (cliffside hot springs) or a spa day at Ventana Inn. Reservations are required for both.
8. Go shopping at The Phoenix Shop, located at Nepenthe Coast Gallery, The Hawthorne Gallery, Mother Botanical & Shop, and Henry Miller Library.
9. Check out the Henry Miller Library and Fernwood to see if any live music will be playing during your time in Big Sur.
Big Sur Elopement Photographer | Evynn LeValley Photography
I hope this Big Sur elopement guide eases your anxiety about planning a destination intimate wedding. Keep in mind that Big Sur experiences very limited cell service, so be prepared for reduced cell phone usage compared to what you’re currently accustomed to. As a third-generation native of the Monterey Peninsula with over a decade of experience photographing Big Sur elopements, I am here to help. Big Sur elopements and micro-weddings have always been my favorite things to photograph. It’s such an honor to capture love stories in such an intimate way. Please feel free to reach out to me to discuss your elopement or intimate wedding.